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"I've got NOTHING in common with people who use."

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33 years old
New York City, New York
United States
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WORKING STEP:
Step 5
SOBRIETY DAY:
30
SOBRIETY MONTH:
05
SOBRIETY YEAR:
2006
PERSONALITY TYPE:
Thinker
ORIENTATION:
Straight
JOB:
Business
RELIGION:
Agnostic
ADDICTION:
Narcotic Drugs
SEEKING:
A Safe Place
MEMBER SINCE: 01/22/2008
LAST LOGIN: 06/11/2010 09:11:30
MY RATING: 0.00



Basic Text of Narcotics Anonymous
It Works How And Why
Step Working Guide
The NA Way
Twelve Concepts
24 Pamphlets (2 new ones came out), 3 booklets
Just For Today

Frankly, it's a miracle that I've even opened a book- Barely knowing how to read and write when I came into these rooms.


Just for Today


Tell yourself:

Just for today, my thoughts will be on my recovery, living and enjoying life without the use of drugs.

Just for today, I will have faith in someone in NA who believes in me and wants to help me in my recovery.

Just for today, I will have a program. I will try to follow it to the best of my ability.

Just for today, through NA, I will try to get a better perspective on my life.

Just for today, I will be unafraid, my thoughts will be on

my new associations

, people who are not using and who have found a new way of life.

So long as I follow that way, I have nothing to fear. Just for Today


When we came into the program of Narcotics Anonymous, we made a decision to turn our lives over to the care of a Higher Power. This surrender relieves the burden of the past and fear of the future. The gift of today is now in proper perspective. We accept and enjoy life as it is right now. When we refuse to accept the reality of today, we are denying our faith in our Higher Power. This can only bring more suffering.


We learn that

today is a gift

with no guarantees. With this in mind, the insignificance of the past and future, and the importance of our actions today, become real for us. This simplifies our lives.

When we focus our thoughts on today the nightmare of drugs fades away, overshadowed by the dawn of a new reality. We find that, when we are troubled, we can trust our feelings to another recovering addict. In sharing our past with other addicts we discover we are not unique, that we share common bonds. Talking to other NA members, whether to share the trials and tribulations of our day with them or allowing them to share theirs with us, is a wayour Higher Power works through us.


We have no need to fear if today we stay clean, close to our Higher Power and our NA friends. God has forgiven us for our past mistakes, and tomorrow is not yet here. Meditation and a personal inventory will help us to gain serenity and guidance throughout this day. We take a few moments out of our daily routine to thank God, as we understand God, for giving us the ability to cope with today.


??? ?? Just for today??? ??? applies to all areas of our lives, not just abstinence from drugs. Reality has to be dealt with on a daily basis. Many of us feel that God expects no more of us than to do the things that we are able to do today.


12/05/2008 11:57:31
09/26/2008 11:54:08


cocaine, RECOVERY DOES HAPPENS, Sex and Love Addicts, -For Gamblers-, Cravings







Click here to find a Narcotics Anonymous meeting in your area!




I have only

ONE

disease, the disease of addiction.
It manifested itself in numerous ways, alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex, money.
But the root of my addiction:

DIRECTLY IN-BETWEEN MY EARS.


Just for today, I am choosing to recover in the program of Narcotics Anonymous.

I am an addict seeking recovery, my name is Thom.
The Principle Before the Personality

I used because I didn't have the power not to.
Came to Narcotics Anonymous, and found the POWER.
Where's the power?
In our steps.
In our meetings.
In our literature.
In our fellowship.
In our traditions.
The steps are the program, the fellowship are the people in the program.
This loving fellowship of NA has NOT given me my life back, I wouldn't WANT my old life back! I gave that away with the help of God and NA.
It has given me a life WORTH LIVING. It has given me CHOICES. "The new way to live." It is real, it is tangable, it is obtainable, it is possible that an addict, ANY addict can loose the desire, if its working for this addict, it could work for ANY addict!







Get your own by clicking here


"Using is always an option-
like an option between a light green banana and a brown & black banana.
Both will taste sorta like a banana.
One day the green banana will be yellow and tasty.

One day the brown and black banana will be fertilizer.


I put enough sh*t in my body"

-Anon





"My friend came up to me and said- 'yo! you gotta check it out- there's this old lady that keeps hanging dirty laundry in the backyard!'
I thought to myself, he's nuts, and left.
then he came to me again- 'She's doing it again! dirty laundry in the backyard!!'
So I said, alright I'll go over and see what you mean.
We went to his room and looked out at the backyard. There was an old lady that walked out, carrying a basket full of laundry to hang up to dry. 'There she is again!!! hanging dirty laundry!!!'
I took out a handkerchief, and I cleaned his window."





I do service whenever I can, I help another addict whenever I can, I give back what was freely given to me.
That is truly fulfilling to me.

"I've learned-"


That you cannot make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.


"I've learned-"


-That it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

-That it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.


"I've learned-"


-That you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you better know something.


-That you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.
-That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
"I've learned-"


-That it's taking me a long time to become the person that I want to be.


-That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.


"I've learned-"


-That you can keep going long after you can't.


That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.


"I've learned-"


-That either you control your attitude or it controls you.


-That regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is a first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.


"I've learned-"


-That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.


-That money is a lousy way of keeping score.


"I've learned-"

-That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.


-That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down will be the ones to help you get back up.


"I've learned-"


-That sometimes when I get angry I have the right to be angry, but it doesn't give me the right to be cruel.


-That true friendship continues to grow over the longest distance, and the same goes for true love.


"I've learned-"


-That just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.


-That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.


"I've learned-"


-That you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what tragedy it would be if they believed it.


-That no matter how good your friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while, and you must forgive them for that.


"I've learned-"


-That it isn't always good enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you must learn to forgive yourself.


That no matter how bad a heart is broken; the world doesn't stop for your grief.


"I've learned-"


-That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for whom we become.


-That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other, and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.


"I've learned-"


-That we don't have to change friends, if we understand that friends change.


-That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.


"I've learned-"


--That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.


-That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.


"I've learned-"


-That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.


-That the people you care about the most in life are taken from you too soon.


"I've learned-"


-That it??? ?? ?s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting someone??? ?? ?s feelings or standing up for what you believe.


-That no matter what happens to me on earth or how much my faith falters, God's faith in me never dwindles or fails.


"I've learned-"


-That life's lessons never end and wisdom can always be passed on.

Basic Text Toting

It Works How and Why Quoting

Step Working

Coffee Drinking

Cigarette Smoking

Meeting Making

Fellowship Gathering

Newcomer Helping

Diner Eating

Sponsor Calling

Sponsee Working

Tradition Following

Experience, Strength, and Hope Conveying

Message Carrying

Topic Sharing

Meeting Chairing

Service Performing

Grateful MEMBER of Narcotics Anonymous, saving MY life on a daily basis, Just For Today.

Welcome to Recovery





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From: Alcoholic6
07/17/2010 07:51:01

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From: Godluvsall
06/02/2009 18:44:28

Congrats on 3 years!


Tina



From: flowerchildofjc
06/02/2009 12:12:07

Congrats on 3 years!!!



From: CJ_ThrownAlive_Promotion
06/02/2009 09:42:39

Hey Thom...


Funni how our paths keep crossing



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